If your husband doesnt want to talk to you there is a reason. My H doesnt want to talk to me either. I am kind of hurt by that but really I have to ask myself what I am doing that is creating an environment that he feels he can not talk to me. i think you should try and ask him why he is not comfortable talking to you, and try to be receptive instead of offended.
Originally Posted by loveandmarriage
- How often do you or your spouse call you during the work day?
- How can you tell that your spouse loves you?
I'm pretty clingy so I call my H, oh, maybe every couple of hours. And if I dont call him he calls me. But I definitely agree with Bluecreek. Its up to you to let your H know what you need from him. He'll give you things he thinks will make you happy but if you dont feel those are the things you need, you have to talk to him. I'm very specific with my H about what I need from him.
The second question is a life long journey. Love is an experience that is redefined over time as one begins to understand oneself better.