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Scannerguard · 04-19-2010, 03:31 PM

A. Yes, I personally need some penile stimulation. It's not under direct command just because my partner disrobes. Think of it as a 3rd party in the bedroom. Man. Woman. Penis. The mere thought of sex isn't enough. . .even though I am horny.

B. The only rule about being in charge is maybe like the last 2 minutes as I am trying to cum. Then I need to position my partner and take charge. The rest of time is up for grabs. My partner can be in charge. I can.

I'll admit though. . .the more my partner is in charge, the more difficult it is to maintain an erection if it's not being rubbed the right way. There has to be some emotional compensation to lack for the physical - dirty talk, fantasy, etc. . .to maintain the erection.

Your line of probing questions sounds leading. I am guessing there is a problem and demand from hubby in the bedroom and you think you maybe shouldn't have to directly stimulate? Well, just like a vagina needs some stimulation, a penis needs it too.

04-19-2010, 03:31 PM	#7 (permalink)
Scannerguard Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Posts: 1,624	Re: How much foreplay do men need before they're "ready" A. Yes, I personally need some penile stimulation. It's not under direct command just because my partner disrobes. Think of it as a 3rd party in the bedroom. Man. Woman. Penis. The mere thought of sex isn't enough. . .even though I am horny. B. The only rule about being in charge is maybe like the last 2 minutes as I am trying to cum. Then I need to position my partner and take charge. The rest of time is up for grabs. My partner can be in charge. I can. I'll admit though. . .the more my partner is in charge, the more difficult it is to maintain an erection if it's not being rubbed the right way. There has to be some emotional compensation to lack for the physical - dirty talk, fantasy, etc. . .to maintain the erection. Your line of probing questions sounds leading. I am guessing there is a problem and demand from hubby in the bedroom and you think you maybe shouldn't have to directly stimulate? Well, just like a vagina needs some stimulation, a penis needs it too.