| | Re: Caught husband watching porn
This is one of those areas where the differences between men and women really shine through. Nature gave us men the ability to copulate without emotional attachment. It makes biological sense so we can spread our seed among numerous partners in order to give us a higher chance of offspring. Women on the other hand are primed for the emotional attachment. From a survival sense, this is very important because it means they will be around to care for the young.
All of that being said, we are not mere animals. Call it evolution, call it God, call it what it may be, we have the ability to reason. We also have the ability to recognize when something in our inherent nature is being triggered. When a man decides to marry a woman, he is agreeing to a lifetime commitment to that woman. If in that relationship Porn, etc causes a problem with either spouse they both need to discuss it. If they cannot come to a mutual decision about how to handle it I think the person that is using the porn should stop. We have the ability to control our urges. It's not always easy, but if it's really important to your spouse, shouldn't the other spouse make it a concentrated effort to stop?