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TheLuckiest08 · 08-23-2008, 11:15 AM

I agree with a previous poster who said people show their love in different ways. And how many times someone calls you during the day has nothing to do with how much they love you!

My husband hardly ever says "I love you" first. Does that mean he doesn't love me? Absolutely not. I know he does when he fixes things for me, goes out of his way to help me, etc. He has even said that, for him, words are meaningless and actions are everything. I think most guys are better at actions than they are at words.

As for the EA, is it possible that you're not very approachable when he wants to talk to you? Do you make time for him? Do you emphasize with how he's feeling, even if you don't agree with what he's saying?

08-23-2008, 11:15 AM	#9 (permalink)
TheLuckiest08 Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Illinois Posts: 65	Re: How do you know if your spouse loves you? I agree with a previous poster who said people show their love in different ways. And how many times someone calls you during the day has nothing to do with how much they love you! My husband hardly ever says "I love you" first. Does that mean he doesn't love me? Absolutely not. I know he does when he fixes things for me, goes out of his way to help me, etc. He has even said that, for him, words are meaningless and actions are everything. I think most guys are better at actions than they are at words. As for the EA, is it possible that you're not very approachable when he wants to talk to you? Do you make time for him? Do you emphasize with how he's feeling, even if you don't agree with what he's saying?