Yeah, it has been a while since we have actually been on a date just her and I! Yes, I do agree that we need some time to ourselves. I do not want to push her away (obviously)! The one thing that stays in the back of my head is that we are still young and in our sexual prime and we are rarely having sex (once every two weeks or so)! What is going to happen 5, 10 or 15 years from now?? At this rate....we will be luck to have sex once a year! She tells me all the time that she wants to have sex and hopes that I do not think that she does not. But the times we can....at night after our son is in bed....she is tired. How do I over come this? Personally, I really do not care how tired I am...if she would be interested....we would have sex!
I feel that you are right....it seems as though I am pushing her away with my desires! But, if I do not show interest to her...then she gets upset and wonders what is wrong. So, I am confused on how to change things! Anymore advice?? Thanks again!!!
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