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Originally Posted by guardianangel  Now, for my answers.
1.0 I always text my wife (who is a housewife) during my lunch break, and before the end of office hours only if I will render overtime. This is for her not to worry if I come home a bit late.
Why only once a day? Because we prefer to talk things in person, face to face, during dinner till we go to sleep. We feel that talking will be better if it is personal, it adds life to our marriage.
2.0 I can tell that my wife loves me because I feel it, through her words, actions, smile, laughter, sacrifices, pain and everything that she do. |
Response to 1.0
When my husband comes home from work, I usually have dinner waiting. I usually do not feed the kids until he comes home so we can all eat together. My husband eats dinner and watches TV while I'm feeding the kids. He usually does not talk about anything because he is into what he is watching.
Response to 2.0
I sometimes wonder how my husband really feels about me. He has told me he has a hard time expressing his feelings. Even telling me he loves me and the kids are hard for him.
I must say my husband is working hard at building his new business. I am so proud of him for wanting better for us.
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Originally Posted by guardianangel Now, here are my questions for you.
1.0 Did you really forgive him in his mistakes?
2.0 Instead of asking him if he still loves you, have you tried asking yourself if you still love him? |
1.0 Did you really forgive him in his mistakes?
I am trying to forgive my husband, but it is hard because I don't think my husband (in fact he admitted) thinks he has done anything wrong. Because of this, I am afraid he will act inappropriately again.
All the things he was doing behind my back bothers me. Him telling me he would stop the numerous phone calls to a female client, when he was willing to contact her through e-mail because I would not find out. And him changing his e-mail password because he is not "comfortable" that I have his password. That is hard to get past.
2.0 Instead of asking him if he still loves you, have you tried asking yourself if you still love him?
Yes, I have asked myself if I still love him. And I must say one good thing out of all of this is that I am
certain that I love my husband and I don't want to lose him.
