| | Re: Advice of how to play in the backdoor?
I use to be on a site that gave sex advise. Here were the pearls of wisdom as I remember them.
1) Do not have sex until 2 hours after a bowl moment. And don't if you feel like you need to have a moment.
2) Use lots of lube. This should have been #1. They make some brands just for "back door".
3) When it is first being inserted act like you are pushing out just at the rim, It will help to slide in easier.
4) Relaxing is important.
5) Have a safe word to stop if need be.
6) Stimulate first.
that is all I can think about right now.