you got the benefit of that in the bedroom"...
Originally Posted by ozarksguy
our love life was pretty normal in december when she was heavily involved in the EA with the OM. in fact at one point she even told me that all her exchanges with him made her feel desired but she said to me... "you got the benefit of that in the bedroom"...
i'm now of the belief that nothing physical happened... but i still struggle and when i tell my wife about my struggles with emotions she gets frustrated with me... not all the time, but a lot of the times. i wish she would understand that it's not easy to get over the betrayal...even if it never crossed that line into a PA.
I was stunned to read the above line. My wife just told me the exact same thing. That our sex life is better because of her "chats" with her boss.
I'm pretty sure nothing physical happened either but the same night (looking back in hindsight) something happened between her and her boss ; we went home later and she did things to me in the bed that she's never done before or since. She was unbelievable in bed. And then I read a text from TOM the next day "Do you feel guilty?" "And r u upset?" over and over.
As for the wife we are fighting constantly and she says I have to let go of the past when she hasn't even admitted she's done anything wrong!