Originally Posted by plymouth71
I am trying to do the 1950's model of not bothering him when he comes home from work, but I have ended up nagging him at bad times.
He needs to learn to not bring the stress from work home. It's not fair to your family to bring it on home. Otherwise do it at night after dinner and yall have relaxed. Ask him instead of watching tv/etc that night that yall just talk. With a marriage you have got to schedule times to talk to each other over most everything else. Many marriages stutter badly when communication fails.
You don't have to solve all of your problems in one night, so maybe just talk about it over a few nights maybe like 30 minutes at a time.