JGIRL

It sounds so simple to just leave him. But it's not that easy. We have a 6 month old, that was planned and adored. We also have 3 other children at home with us. All have had the upheaval of divorce once. There is so much at stake here. I have an appointment with my counselor tomorrow. Hoping she can give me a fresh perspective. We have truly worked hard to get a good basis to build on because of our start. We both wish we had waited but you can't change the past. We couldn't change how we started but we both wanted to change the way we progressed. I feel so disappointed that he just does not understand what this means. We both used to travel alot with our friends, before we became a couple. I know how he feels about wanting to get away and have some fun with his friends. I sometimes long for that also, but have committed to him and to myself that I can't hang out dancing and such with my friends without him, especially those that are flirtacious with other men. I thought we were on the same page, I've just been blindsided with this.