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JGIRL · 05-11-2010, 01:51 PM

I agree. And I have dropped those "partying" friends. I left that time of my life behind and honestly, at times, I'm lonely. It's so hard to develop new friendships with work and children, etc. I left behind 75% of my circle of close friends. He hasn't, but he has only had lunch or dinner with them with me along. We have traveled a few times with some of them which has been fine and they have never been out of line. I have felt very comfortable with arrangement. It was just easier for me to cut ties rather than constantly have to explain why I was not willing to take off on another week-end trip. It wasn't easy but it was the right thing to do for our relationship and our marriage. I'm afraid he is so bent on going now to prove a point that I don't know what to do. He will not be receptive to me going along as he is replacing someone that has cancelled and would be rooming with another guy.

05-11-2010, 01:51 PM	#11 (permalink)
JGIRL Registered User Join Date: May 2010 Location: Southeast Posts: 16	Re: He keeps changing the rules... I agree. And I have dropped those "partying" friends. I left that time of my life behind and honestly, at times, I'm lonely. It's so hard to develop new friendships with work and children, etc. I left behind 75% of my circle of close friends. He hasn't, but he has only had lunch or dinner with them with me along. We have traveled a few times with some of them which has been fine and they have never been out of line. I have felt very comfortable with arrangement. It was just easier for me to cut ties rather than constantly have to explain why I was not willing to take off on another week-end trip. It wasn't easy but it was the right thing to do for our relationship and our marriage. I'm afraid he is so bent on going now to prove a point that I don't know what to do. He will not be receptive to me going along as he is replacing someone that has cancelled and would be rooming with another guy.