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iamnottheonlyone · 05-12-2010, 07:26 PM

I do feel your pain, and I am feeling it right now. Last night was the first night I slept for the last 3 weeks. I even got a nap in this afternoon. Having been betrayed I had to come to gripa with my lack of control. The images of the betrayal are the worse. There is no silver bullet. I was focusing on that. It ain't there. You are trying and your actions speak louder than words. Do tell him you love him? It helps me even though she may not love me right now. You didn't do anything bad to make this happen, did you? So take responsility for what you didn't do. Probably just didn't pay enough attention. I feel better today because I know I can't snap my fingers and change things. There are some great people in this forum. You will love the exchanges. There is occasional bad advise. You'll know it when you read it. Pushing will get you nowhere but unhappy or divorced. Talk to your real friends too. I'll get back to you. Oh..try singing and loud music. It helped me.

05-12-2010, 07:26 PM	#2 (permalink)
iamnottheonlyone Member Join Date: May 2010 Posts: 814	Re: Have not told a soul until now I do feel your pain, and I am feeling it right now. Last night was the first night I slept for the last 3 weeks. I even got a nap in this afternoon. Having been betrayed I had to come to gripa with my lack of control. The images of the betrayal are the worse. There is no silver bullet. I was focusing on that. It ain't there. You are trying and your actions speak louder than words. Do tell him you love him? It helps me even though she may not love me right now. You didn't do anything bad to make this happen, did you? So take responsility for what you didn't do. Probably just didn't pay enough attention. I feel better today because I know I can't snap my fingers and change things. There are some great people in this forum. You will love the exchanges. There is occasional bad advise. You'll know it when you read it. Pushing will get you nowhere but unhappy or divorced. Talk to your real friends too. I'll get back to you. Oh..try singing and loud music. It helped me.