| | Re: Advice of how to play in the backdoor?
ive been doing this for years and its a favourite.
we started of gently as you would.
lie on the bed and both of you facing the same way. him behind you.
to start of with you might want some ky jelly. only as a topical solution.
i agree with amber - relax first , have a glass of wine and foreplay to get you both in the mood.
have a little bit of oral and normal sex first. this wil increase your appetite.
when you first start, well it might take several sessions before you achieve n e benefits.
when you try, it wil hurt, ask him to pull back, he has to be very gentle. do this over and over again. you wil not achieve full anal sex for a little while. so tell eachother its fun to keep trying.
if he forces to much he could rip you and cause alot of damage.
just keep on with the back and fore and ask him to use his hand on your front for further stimulus.
this allows the back muscles to stretch open a little further.