| | Re: Help! I am completely confused.
I think counseling is a good start for her and for you, and for the two of you together. I think a lot of couples who have been together for a long time go through a period of feeling little to no passion (can you tell I'm in the same spot)?? Can you afford to save some $$ and maybe just spend a night or a weekend away? Do you remember what you did to woo your wife? Maybe try some of those tactics or try something new. And it may all come down to something inside of her that has nothing to do with you, which is why counseling is a good idea for the both of you.