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Old 05-16-2010, 04:03 PM   #13 (permalink)
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Him telling you that he doesn't want to tell you what you need to hear is BULL****. Total BULL****. YOU need to hear it from him, you need to understand what happened, you need details about this TWO YEAR AFFAIR and he is saying it will only hurt you? WRONG. It will only hurt him. YOU already know he cheated. How can the pain get any worse for YOU. HE doesn't want to face what he did. He doesn't want to bring up what happened. He wants a free pass to move on like nothing happened. Total crap. You have every right to find out what happened, what went down, did he use protection, did he compromise you health. You have every right. This minimazation on his behalf is his way of trying to feel less guilty and it is horse****. HE did this and he has to face the music. The whole "moving forward" is nothing more than his attempt at trying to move past his guilt and move on. Wrong. Well of course he doesn't want to feel his guilt. He hurt his wife for 2 years and probably more than that. What a shocker that a coward doesn't want to look in the mirror and see the destruction that he has caused. All of my posts about cheaters are that they are cowards. They all read from the same script. They don't want to own up to what they did because they want to minimize it, blameshift and bull**** their way through life. It is stagerring how much they are all alike. Hold his feet to the flames. YOU DESERVE ANSWERS.
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