| | Re: New here....22 years and still sadness
No he enlisted for a fact. I saw the papers and his signature. The new account was just the latest in a string of "info" he tells me after the fact.
The facts are he has had emotional affairs, to which I am just supposed to forgive and "forget" because he doesn't like it when I bring it up.
The bank account was opened, without my knowledge, but it was supposed to "help" in case he forgot to give me receipts, etc...
And thirdly he chose to enter back up in the armed forces no matter how I felt about it.
I don't even think I come in second or third, not really sure how far down the list I am. But I am always told to 'Get over it, it is done".
How does one get the strength to move on, or how can you even tell when you have done all you can to save a marriage?