Originally Posted by WantsHappiness
I’m guessing that with the prescription for Paxil comes regular checkups with the prescribing doctor? That office or a marriage counselor’s seems like the appropriate place to address these concerns. If he doesn’t think he’s doing anything wrong he can’t very well convey the message to an individual counselor. Perhaps individual sessions with a joint marriage counselor that you both see would help.
I suggested individual counseling because his nagging is so nonsensical that it is clear to be a neurosis, which is the symptom of something greater, just as his anger is symptom to something that Paxil is able to control. However, he needs something different or in addition to Paxil. A marriage counselor (who is normally just a therapist, not a doctor) can neither diagnose nor treat that problem.