| | Re: Why is this so hard? please help
Reading your post is the exact same way I feel. No effort from her to try anymore after being separated for three months.
I finally sent my wife a letter telling her that if she didn't want me she could move on. I can no longer put myself in a position for more pain and disappointment. I was hoping she would start to give a d@m#
She responded that she wanted a week to think about it. A week !!!!???
LIke a fool, I told her we will talk in a week. I'm telling myself that it's over so I won't expect anything. I'm also planning on getting a financial agreement signed by her IF she does contact me. I'm to the point that it's over but I still need to accept it. I'm thinking she can't stand but to end it on her terms.
Good luck to you kissycupcake. I'm still there to a certain extent but it's getting to the point that I don't want this anymore.