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Amplexor · 08-29-2008, 10:34 AM

It is not unusual for some men to reduce the social aspects of life shortly after they are married. They spend time wooing their prospective mate and once the marriage has taken place they forget about the importance of this to their wives. They can settle into a less social life style.

But I would say the depression is the first thing to be addressed. Follow through with the medical review so you both know what you are dealing with. It could be as simple as some medication and personal counseling. Hopefully so. If not you need to communicate to him your needs as his wife. The two of you need to understand what each of you wants and find the median that keeps you both happy. Successful happy marriages don’t just happen. They take work and communication. Your marriage is young and now is the time to address the issues or you will continue to drift apart. Again, follow through with the medical issues and see where he improves or needs more work. Good luck.

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Amplexor Moderator Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Temporary Resident of Earth Lord Only Knows Where Next Posts: 2,459	Re: Don't know where to turn It is not unusual for some men to reduce the social aspects of life shortly after they are married. They spend time wooing their prospective mate and once the marriage has taken place they forget about the importance of this to their wives. They can settle into a less social life style. But I would say the depression is the first thing to be addressed. Follow through with the medical review so you both know what you are dealing with. It could be as simple as some medication and personal counseling. Hopefully so. If not you need to communicate to him your needs as his wife. The two of you need to understand what each of you wants and find the median that keeps you both happy. Successful happy marriages don’t just happen. They take work and communication. Your marriage is young and now is the time to address the issues or you will continue to drift apart. Again, follow through with the medical issues and see where he improves or needs more work. Good luck. __________________ Amp Confidence – Love – Patience – Faith Are the tools to help heal a marriage.