Today he came over to bring back the kids and I felt sort of bad not telling him how low his account was(were talking dollars) but I also knew that he has made his own choices and made it VERY clear that he wanted to leave and for me to pretty much leave him alone
I know that tomorrow/next day he is going to be in a very bad situation and is going to come to me but I honestly feel like I am strong enough to deal with it and also like Affaircare said I have to let go of the wheel and let what is going to happen....happen.