Re: Myth: "They Come Crawling Back"
I agree completely. It's also instructive to read the posts by waywards who have been busted. While the BS is relieved to have the A 'over', the WS is often consumed with thoughts of the AP and actively trying to decide whether it's worth staying in the M. The WS's usually don't vocalize this.
Showing them what they have to lose is definitely not a magic bullet for remorse and reconciliation.