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Originally Posted by ljtseng
i certainly thought i had it all figured out before i got married. i had four older married sisters who i probbed about their marriages. i thought i knew all the answers. thing is, emotions dont respond to logic. I did know all the answers. but you really cant know anything until you've experienced it for yourself. you'll have issues in your marriage. but im going to guess youve had issues in your life too right? its all ups and downs. marriage isnt any different. what will happen is you will get to know yourself better. hopefully you evolve in to someone you can respect.
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Well I hope I find myself soon because I'm almost 30! 30!!!
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Originally Posted by Triton
This site should make you think hard about marriage. Be afraid -Very afraid.
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Oh I am! And that's why I like this forum because it gives me a preview of what might come!
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Originally Posted by draconis
If you fear marriage and or relationships it is because you do not know how to find the right person, hoe to treat them, or how to act in a relationship.
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That's also very true. I consider myself to be not normal, and I don't mean that in a negative way. I know I'm different than others since I'm introverted and I think like an engineer. I'm also inexperienced with women so that's a disadvantage for me.