Originally Posted by Susan2010
When all you had to do was tell them you were happy they thought to contact you but that you are married now and won't be able to maintain contact with them. Not her solution. Not your solution either but honors your wife, and she would have been satisfied.
Your reply was so intense I wanted to reply that well I did exactly that. My exact words were. "As I am married certain chapters of my life must remain closed. Please refrain from any further contact." Very direct, but not hostile.