| | Re: Sexless, feeling unconnected
Nothing worse than having sex with someone who really doesn't want to have it in the first place (treats it like a chore). Takes all the pleasure out of it. Almost not worth even having. It is sad when people with mismatched drives are together. If this is very important to you, then you need to let her know it. If she still doesn't care, then you need to look at other options (there are many). Have a very frank discussion with her. Ask her to compromise at the very least.