Originally Posted by turnera
Are you talking about exposure?
as far as step 4 yes basically everyone in my family knows but she has not contacted anyone in my family for a while now over a month and avoids them at all costs. I just don't feel it makes much difference at this point because it is easy for her to hide the affair. So do I ask people to call her? and as far as friends not sure who would be pro marriage I imagine most people would feel uncomfortable and not want to get involved the few friends I can think of are mutual friend but through my wife.