Well I have a small update with what happen tonight....
Well he came over I went out to get the kids and didn't really say anything and when I started to walk away he called me back. I figured he wanted to say good bye again to our youngest. Well he looked right at me and said, 'so you really want to move' Now some back ground on this I said when he 1st left that I could move back home and then when we wouldn't have to worry about daycare cost. Well I said, 'NOPE, I am going make it work here' He asked how and I told him I would figure it out. That I would be OK.
I remained calm. I will say I was not all smiles and puppy dog faces but was polite and calm. He tried to do a puppy dog face on me and say he was having such a hard time and was not hardly making it with all the cost.
Well then I did something I am very proud of myself and I have to thank Affaircare for it
Well in her previous post she mentioned food stamps well I remembered some where that if you applied for public assistance that they automatically put in a child support order. I have some savings and am hoping I will not need to have to apply for anything like that BUT it gave me a GENIUS idea!
He started to talk about money again and I told him I was going to have to apply for food stamps and they were going to have to do an automatic child support order. He sort of got a scared look and said, 'Oh OK' I know part of it was the idea of me having to go down and apply for anything like that but I know a even BIGGER part was he knew that I was not bluffing anymore and that they were not going to care they would just take the set amount.