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When we first separated mine was the same- he wouldn't even come up to the house because he said he had nothing to say to me and didn't want me to drag him into a conversation. His coldness lasted for a very long time- many months. When he would call the house, if I answered he would say" I want to talk to my children". For the past several weeks, he has started asking to speak with me when he calls the kids. I saw my H for about 3 hours this morning with the kids-it went ok, he left early , nothing really said between us. He is over tonight to help with a sleep-over for our oldest child- he just left to take his dogs out. He has been pretty cold with me tonight but civil. I think maybe he doesn't want to be here, it is a lot of work with all these kids and he is now used to only taking care of his own needs 24-7. I told him he could bring the dogs over for the night( I miss them and wanted to spend time with them), but he bit my head off when I told him this. I am going to stay positive tonight and not let it get to me, but I do sense a bit of a coldness. Well, I only had a minute. Back to the kids...I'll update later. Stay strong, enjoy the quiet and try to relax. Have fun tomorrow!