| | Re: 20 Plus Years, very happy husband writes...
Great thread! Enjoyed ready all the posts. I'm a "secong-time lucky" guy married to an awesome woman with a new child.
Have to agree with everything in the original (BigBadWolf) posting...excepy my wife never wants to be spanked...and it's not been a feature of our intimacy until recently. I played with it in the very beginning (as previous GF's had loved it) but she wasn't into it at all.
However, within the last 12 months something interesting has happened... she spanks me! And not in a playful way either, although our sexlife has defo gotten more passionate since.
The first time she did it was after one of those multi-day never-ending arguments where you fling sh*t at each other over and over again. She hot the roof after one comment I made and ordered me to bare my butt and hand her my belt. WOW! Did she ever whop me good! It saved a vacation and stopped the argument...and the scolding she gave me during it really got through and nade me see what an a**hole I was being.
It had a great eefect although I was very confused about it all afterwards. We even looked in the whole femdom thing afterwards and neither of us were interested. She has spanked me again recently for a variety of reasons (again for my own good) and says it's not that she wishes to dominate me, or wants me to be "submissive"...far from it, she likes that I am a leader and string-willed etc... but that I sometimes get so involved in things I cannot see the wood for the trees and need reining in and refocusing. She says it's rather like a queen and her strong knight... which I kinda like!
So, there can be a twist on the origins of this thread...
I have certainly read a multitude of threads here where in my opinion if the woman who is being wronged (usually by a lazy-a** loser who wants to sponge of her and thinks he can treat her like cr*p just because she is a "weak" woman) took the initiative to crack the belt over their butts then they'd see an immediate (and potentially grateful) change in their men.