| | Re: "being w/ you is like having to eat spaghetti everynight for the rest of my life"
I dont have a lot of advice, but I can relate to what you are saying. My husband once compared me to ice cream saying he loves chocolate but once in a while he would like vanilla. I dont know what they are thinking, being so full of themselves. I will tell you that over the years 16 yrs together 11 married my husband has also told me he is not in love with me and later has been in love with me. I think it comes and goes, for us anyway. I think as long as he is so closed minded about it there is not much you can do.