| | Re: lost n confused
This is one of the many, many, many stories that makes me wonder why on earth you married him. Wasn't he the same way while you were dating? Didn't you have sex only once or twice a month before you married him? Didn't he refrain from showing affection before you got married?
Unless this was an arranged marriage or otherwise lacking a dating period, there was no reason to expect the marriage to be any better than it is.