Talk About Marriage - View Single Post - This is hard, but I need CHRISTIAN advice...please~

draconis · 10-23-2007, 09:34 AM

Okay, here goes.

First you love your husband and want to stay with him, so there is no problem there.

Genesis 29:32 (King James Version)
32And Leah conceived, and bare a son, and she called his name Reuben: for she said, Surely the LORD hath looked upon my affliction; now therefore my husband will love me.

Second, you don't trust her. Well you don't have to, if you trust your husband has enough morals then he can, should and will do the right thing no matter how alluring she might be.

Third, the child. That child is more important then YOU, HER or your HUSBAND, period. If you go do not make a scene just be polite. Even when Jesus was being led off to die he showed kindness and compassion for the very people that would hurt him.

John 18:10 & 11 (King James Version)
10Then Simon Peter having a sword drew it, and smote the high priest's servant, and cut off his right ear. The servant's name was Malchus.
11Then said Jesus unto Peter, Put up thy sword into the sheath: the cup which my Father hath given me, shall I not drink it?

So my advice go to the party and no matter what be quiet. For your husband, for you and for your step son.

draconis

10-23-2007, 09:34 AM	#2 (permalink)
draconis Forum Supporter Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: North East Posts: 2,281	Re: This is hard, but I need CHRISTIAN advice...please~ Okay, here goes. First you love your husband and want to stay with him, so there is no problem there. Genesis 29:32 (King James Version) 32And Leah conceived, and bare a son, and she called his name Reuben: for she said, Surely the LORD hath looked upon my affliction; now therefore my husband will love me. Second, you don't trust her. Well you don't have to, if you trust your husband has enough morals then he can, should and will do the right thing no matter how alluring she might be. Third, the child. That child is more important then YOU, HER or your HUSBAND, period. If you go do not make a scene just be polite. Even when Jesus was being led off to die he showed kindness and compassion for the very people that would hurt him. John 18:10 & 11 (King James Version) 10Then Simon Peter having a sword drew it, and smote the high priest's servant, and cut off his right ear. The servant's name was Malchus. 11Then said Jesus unto Peter, Put up thy sword into the sheath: the cup which my Father hath given me, shall I not drink it? So my advice go to the party and no matter what be quiet. For your husband, for you and for your step son. draconis