Originally Posted by Connie
We women had to multi-task and the men had one thing in their mind: work and go home. I think I am burnt to the point I feel like quitting everything all at once.
You have two things going on here:
1. You incorrectly believe that men have simple lives that doesn't include housework.
2. You are depressed about your lot in life.
People have given you good advice about organizing the house and simplifying the chore of maintaining things.
You mention that you have a baby and another on the way. Have you told your ob/gyn about your depressed state of mind? You could have postpartum depression.
Please seek professional opinion about that.