Originally Posted by Susan2010
A woman does not withhold from a wonderful man.
Mine did. She freely admitted that after getting married she just "wasn't interested" in having sex with me. According to her, everything else was great. Communication was great. Stress was low. No money problems. No work problems. I did plenty of chores. I made her feel wonderful. Life was grand in every respect. And she still had a sex drive, masturbating twice a week.
And yet, to quote her again, "I just wasn't interested in having sex with you". And despite my advances for 15 years, she continued to reject me. "Sex just isn't a priority for me", she'd say. It sure as heck felt like abuse to me. If not abuse, then the most optimistic phrase I could use would be "neglect", because she says it never occurred to her that a sexless marriage was an unhealthy one.
We were married only a few months when the sex stopped. She was still happy. Happy with me, and happily married.