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skinman · 06-23-2010, 06:17 AM

Hello whynotme,

Your post sounded so much like me in many ways. The anger and bitterness for what my ex did to me and our family..How could I have allowed her to do the things she did ??.. The only answer I can think of is there was a reason she came into my life. I had lessons that needed to be learned before I could really accept myself and be happy. People come into our lives for a reason and its usually something we need at that time. I believe everything happens for a reason... Accept what happened and move on.. "I know easier said than done" same thing for me. I was stubburn and held onto the bitterness and anger.. In the end it didnt change a thing, she was gone and I was alone...

I learned to love myself, trust my instincts something I should have done when I met her... Use this as a leraning experience, practice patience, forgiveness.. not so much for him but for yourself.. Pray for him if your the Christian that you say.. This time will pas quickly if you allow it... The bitterness and anger do more harm to you than them....

I'm sure you know the "Serenity Prayer"... say that to your yourself each day and know that it will get better...... best wishes to you.....

Skin........

06-23-2010, 06:17 AM	#2 (permalink)
skinman Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Virginia Posts: 364	Re: Angry, Bitter and Sad Hello whynotme, Your post sounded so much like me in many ways. The anger and bitterness for what my ex did to me and our family..How could I have allowed her to do the things she did ??.. The only answer I can think of is there was a reason she came into my life. I had lessons that needed to be learned before I could really accept myself and be happy. People come into our lives for a reason and its usually something we need at that time. I believe everything happens for a reason... Accept what happened and move on.. "I know easier said than done" same thing for me. I was stubburn and held onto the bitterness and anger.. In the end it didnt change a thing, she was gone and I was alone... I learned to love myself, trust my instincts something I should have done when I met her... Use this as a leraning experience, practice patience, forgiveness.. not so much for him but for yourself.. Pray for him if your the Christian that you say.. This time will pas quickly if you allow it... The bitterness and anger do more harm to you than them.... I'm sure you know the "Serenity Prayer"... say that to your yourself each day and know that it will get better...... best wishes to you..... Skin........