If you are in a healthy place then no it is not bad. It sounds like you have no plans on reconciling.....right? If not then it is fine. I personally dont think that hanging out is a bad thing with family BUT if it is going to put you back in an unhealthy place then no. Me and my H hung out but we have only been separated for 7 weeks and are in the process of reconciling. I think you have to keep yourself in a healthy place 1st