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Originally Posted by is it me?
The wife and I fight almost every week. It of course is over the most mundaine things, but it blows up and we say hurtful things and we are always trying to prove a point or point fingers, its all about who is right and wrong. I try not to be that way, but my wife drags me into her way of arguing. Things normally settle down after a day sometimes two. It usually ends in me apologizing and my wife saying nothing.
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Try to not raise your voice. Many times arguments escalate because of volume.
W: "Did you break the dish?"
H: "No dear."
W: "Well I didn't!"
H: "I believe you."
W: "Well you must have!"
H: "No I did not."
W: "Well who did then?"
H: "I do not know."
Short, sweet and calm.
draconis