My wife said the same to me after having 3?? (you never are really sure on the total) affairs. She said that I was her best friend and she wanted to stay friends no matter what. My response to that was, "damn, if I'm your best friend and you did this to me then I'd really hate to see what you do to your enemies"
friendships are like relationships...they need trust, respect, and a little sacrifice. When that is brought into question in a relationship, it doesn't just disappear when you become 'just friends'. Then it's time to add big brother jealosy into the party lol.
in short...if you can just keep it business because that will be best for you in the long run. Obviously there are exceptions to this out there but not the norm IMO
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