| | Re: 2 1/2 years later..Still angry
You are allowed to be angry and need to express it somehow. I think once you get through the anger, you may be able to work towards true forgiveness with your husband. Do you have a good girlfriend that you can go to when you are angry? do you have a journal where you can write things down? have you gone to amarriage counselor? you should not be afraid of when you are angry that your husband is going to run back to the OW. That is emotional blackmail. And yes, when you are angry and let hateful things fly, there will be consequences and he may just need some time to think about what you said, and you should apologize for what you said. If you haven't already, the two of you should go to marriage counseling to learn how to deal with your anger together and any other unresolved issues there are between you.