| | Re: 2 1/2 years later..Still angry
No marriage counseling We've been trying to do this on our own. Until some bills are paid off we can't afford counseling. No insurance so we've muddle by for 2 years and I've kept the anger buried most of the time. I really don't want to apologize again. I know from doing a year of counseling on my own while we were separated during his affair that I need to process the anger and resentment and there are better ways of doing it than how I did it last night. I'm not worried about him running back to the OW he ended the affair when he found out she was cheating on him. She's remarried and lives about 800 miles away. It's just the silent treatment now. I'll go back to keeping it locked away in that black hole and I'll end up apologizing again. I'm sorry for the way it came out, but not for the emotion and words behind it. On the other hand I'm not so sure we can wait another 6 months till all we have left to pay each month is the mortgage and utilities.