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jessi · 07-07-2010, 07:00 AM

I can relate Jack2010,
I just can tell you going through this myself that it does get better with time.....right now you are in disbelief that the woman you loved could make a decision like this, and that hurts so badly.......I still do not understand the why question.......
As time goes on you will be better, it's like going through the stages of a death....your wife needs to reassure you every chance she gets, right now you don't trust her and you feel your emotions aren't safe with her........you can re-build that and your relationship......go through the stages of grief and move forward from there.....good luck, talk on this forum it helped me a lot....a lot of very wise people here......tough but caring.......stay awhile.

07-07-2010, 07:00 AM	#5 (permalink)
jessi Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: canada Posts: 796	Re: Can't stop thinking about the affair I can relate Jack2010, I just can tell you going through this myself that it does get better with time.....right now you are in disbelief that the woman you loved could make a decision like this, and that hurts so badly.......I still do not understand the why question....... As time goes on you will be better, it's like going through the stages of a death....your wife needs to reassure you every chance she gets, right now you don't trust her and you feel your emotions aren't safe with her........you can re-build that and your relationship......go through the stages of grief and move forward from there.....good luck, talk on this forum it helped me a lot....a lot of very wise people here......tough but caring.......stay awhile.