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lbell629 · 07-09-2010, 10:15 AM

You did the right thing by cutting off communication with the other guy! I know it was hard, but good job for doing it. I agree with Robrobb about telling your husband. This might be the wake up call he needs to see that you aren't happy and he needs to work towards things with you. Even though your husband is struggling with depression, it is his depression and he needs to learn how to handle it even when things aren't so great between you. And if even after all of this he won't go to counseling, you should go just yourself to learn how to handle what you are feeling. Surround yourself with some great girlfriends who will support you and your marriage.

07-09-2010, 10:15 AM	#3 (permalink)
lbell629 Member Join Date: May 2010 Posts: 139	Re: Emotional Affair You did the right thing by cutting off communication with the other guy! I know it was hard, but good job for doing it. I agree with Robrobb about telling your husband. This might be the wake up call he needs to see that you aren't happy and he needs to work towards things with you. Even though your husband is struggling with depression, it is his depression and he needs to learn how to handle it even when things aren't so great between you. And if even after all of this he won't go to counseling, you should go just yourself to learn how to handle what you are feeling. Surround yourself with some great girlfriends who will support you and your marriage.