I guess I'm having a hard time seeing the difference between this and rape. I mean, for years people have said that you can't blame the victim because it's wrong unless both parties are consenting. We can't say, "She asked for it by flirting or dressing in sexy clothes." But, on the other hand, how can we say that sex is a necessity for men without confirming that rapists are simply not to be blamed for their acts because they were simply fulfilling their needs?
Originally Posted by aw5756
It's nothing for us to go without sex for months at a time but it is a necessity for men. Now just because we aren't in the mood doesn't mean we shouldn't help them out. A little catering can go a long way. just don't do it too much or he'll get too used to it to where it doesn't affect him like it used to.
Also, I had to laugh a little about the "Just don't get him too used to it" comment. You mean like, say, when I was first dating and married and we wanted to have sex all the time? I guess someone should have told me then not to do it too often as that would get him "used to it". LOL I will make a note to add this to the "talk" with my daughter. Jk