Re: Sudden loss of young pet, plunges my husband in to Depression/Alcoholism
do you think this is PTSD from his grandfathers death? Maybe he never really delt with it and the feelings are coming back up with your pet dying. It also sounds like you're carrying around a lot of resentment.
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