Re: Red flags in Marriage - time to end?
Put a tracker and a VAR in her car.
As for the business trips why does she go alone? What exactly does she do?
For the next trip can you hire a PI in the city she's going and track her?
I would end it just for the sheer agony she must be putting you through, it's no way to be in a marriage when you're paranoid about what the other person is doing.
Don't buy the tear either. She's boxed into a corner..why exactly would she say do you still want to be with me if she's just meeting up for donuts and ice creams? She knows you're onto her.