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CodeNameBob · 07-19-2010, 02:57 PM

I ended up going to the party, and learned a lot more about my STBX. I don't think I could take her back today, I can't even take back the woman that I married because I really don't even know that woman. She is in complete self destuct mode, self loathing, self pity, and lost. I fell in love with a woman that did not have those traits, but I am coming to realize that she was just hiding them from me. A woman that is drunk for 9 straight days is not a woman I can be with, then or now. If this is who she has always been then she had been living a lie the entire time we were together.

I am having problems with the last act of love for her, for I want to get her family involved, but she is not going to be my responsiblity much longer. Do I create the issues for myself by getting involved or just walk away?

07-19-2010, 02:57 PM	#77 (permalink)
CodeNameBob Member Join Date: Jun 2010 Posts: 162	Re: Will the lies get worse? I ended up going to the party, and learned a lot more about my STBX. I don't think I could take her back today, I can't even take back the woman that I married because I really don't even know that woman. She is in complete self destuct mode, self loathing, self pity, and lost. I fell in love with a woman that did not have those traits, but I am coming to realize that she was just hiding them from me. A woman that is drunk for 9 straight days is not a woman I can be with, then or now. If this is who she has always been then she had been living a lie the entire time we were together. I am having problems with the last act of love for her, for I want to get her family involved, but she is not going to be my responsiblity much longer. Do I create the issues for myself by getting involved or just walk away?