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iamnottheonlyone · 07-20-2010, 08:51 PM

If he can read some of the materials he will see that what he is doing is typical. He will also learn ways to work around it. He must give you some room and he must build confidence. Confidence is attractive. But rebuilding the lost confidence requires time and discipline. He has to read and study. Why don't you suggest he participate in a forum like this where he can get some good advice that is personalized to his needs. It doesn't have to be here (and probably shouldn't be.) But this kind of help will speed up his recovery..and yours.

07-20-2010, 08:51 PM	#4 (permalink)
iamnottheonlyone Member Join Date: May 2010 Posts: 814	Re: Feeling very guilty and don't know what to do next If he can read some of the materials he will see that what he is doing is typical. He will also learn ways to work around it. He must give you some room and he must build confidence. Confidence is attractive. But rebuilding the lost confidence requires time and discipline. He has to read and study. Why don't you suggest he participate in a forum like this where he can get some good advice that is personalized to his needs. It doesn't have to be here (and probably shouldn't be.) But this kind of help will speed up his recovery..and yours.