| | How does one forgive?
My stbxw lied to me, betrayed me, lies about me, and stole from me. I am very depressed and angry and my family and friends say I have to forgive her. they say the forgiveness is not for her but for me as I am the one being eaten up inside, she probably doesnt even care. My question is how do you do that? Is it something you profess until you believe it or what?