Re: Is it better to file an at fault divorce?
Find out about diy divorce books and as much as you can about the laws in you state. I still think with her record and arrest record you would have an excellent chance of sole physical custody.
However without an attourney that gets dicey so you might settle for joint custody and the next time she screws up, and she will, then file for a modification and full custody. I do mean within a couple of days of her screw up.
The sad fact is she has driven drunk with that child in the car waaay more than twice...she has been caught twice.