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post #6 of (permalink) Old 11-28-2016, 10:59 PM
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Re: Wife still cheating. I just filed for D

Originally Posted by collin8550 View Post
Thanks for that info on DARVO. Makes sense.

I feel sorry for her and I don't know why. She treated me horribly but when I think about her ruining her life and turning into trash, I have pity. Maybe that's a normal and common feeling?

Also, did any of you that went thru this ever have times where you think back to past times where you messed up or was selfish and feel like the bad guy? As long as I feel morally superior I am in a good mood, but I think back to times we fought where I was actually wrong, then I feel bad. I never had an affair or anything like that, but I think back to times I may have been mad and said something mean or skipped out on a date to hang out with friends.
No one is perfect. There is no perfect marriage. We all have flaws.

You didn't go out and have an affair on her because of her behavior/issues did you?

Quit looking for an excuse for her behavior. There aren't any
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