| | Re: I am so upset, lonely and lost
You and your wife have a lot going for you as a couple--financially. Things probably won't be so great once you separate. So, both of you really need to work on your relationship before giving up. I'm a little confused with something in your post. Your wife has a close friend in Florida. However, in another place you say she gets along with no one. Is there more to this?
I honestly think your wife needs counseling. As I have learned those who need counseling the most are the last to get it. Therefore, I suggest you find yourself an individual counselor. A good therapist will be able to guide you and help you deal with an uncooperative spouse. You both need to be happy.
Hope you can find a balance.